Many students are reluctant to share their autism diagnosis. Here’s what Kate Dean, Disability Advice Manager at Leeds Beckett University, advises as she addresses a list of student statements.

I avoid telling people when it could be perceived as an excuse for certain behaviour, or for getting out of work somehow.

Kate Dean, Disability Advice Manager

Kate’s advice:

You may not need to tell anyone that you have autism (including Asperger’s) unless your course is aligned to a professional body that requires you to make a declaration. You can get more information about this from your chosen University.

Tutors are already over-stressed and over-worked. Add to that the fact they simply lack the specific knowledge to understand the problem. I find it very hard to explain my needs and even more so to persuade to help me with them.

Kate Dean, Disability Advice Manager

Kate’s advice:

You may find it useful in the first instance to speak to your Disability Adviser, they are experienced in supporting students with a wide range of disabilities including autism and Asperger’s, and they will assist you to explore any difficulties you may face in a higher education environment. You will also be offered assistance to explain your support needs to your tutors and your Disability Adviser will make recommendations for adjustments that would be reasonable for your course team to offer.

They will make assumptions.

Kate Dean, Disability Advice Manager

Kate’s advice:

Talking to your Disability Adviser about your individual needs may help to alleviate the impact of the assumptions and instead assist your tutors to understand more about you.

I fear I will not be taken seriously as I do not look ‘disabled’.

Kate Dean, Disability Advice Manager

Kate’s advice:

The majority of disabilities are unseen but this should not affect the way you are treated; all disabled students are taken seriously and the support you are offered is tailored to your individual needs. The recommendations made by a Disability Adviser will help communicate your needs to your tutors on your behalf so you do not need to worry about trying to explain yourself or articulate your needs.

It’s too personal. People have false perceptions or do not know. It’s hard to understand, and I feel embarrassed to tell. I am afraid that I would be challenged about it, because there is no visible disability.

Kate Dean, Disability Advice Manager

Kate’s advice:

The majority of disabilities are unseen but this should not affect the way you are treated; all disabled students are taken seriously and the support you are offered at university is tailored to your individual needs.

I can never seem to explain exactly what my needs are – people dismiss me or misunderstand.

Kate Dean, Disability Advice Manager

Kate’s advice:

You may find it useful in the first instance to speak to your Disability Adviser, they are experienced in supporting students with a wide range of disabilities including autism and Asperger’s, and they will assist you to explore any difficulties you may face in a higher education environment. You will also be offered assistance to explain your support needs to your tutors and your Disability Adviser will make recommendations for adjustments that would be reasonable for your course team to offer.

Some people dismiss me and think I’m just wanting to be different / lazy because they think I’m “smart enough” to overcome my difficulties. I’m just not very good at explaining my needs or asking for help or fighting for it when I’m turned down.

Kate Dean, Disability Advice Manager

Kate’s advice:

Disability Advisers are experienced in supporting students with a wide range of disabilities including autism and Asperger’s, and they will assist you to explore any difficulties you may face in a higher education environment.

The recommendations made by a Disability Adviser are intended to assist you in developing strategies to manage any difficulties you face in a higher education environment and to help you communicate your needs to your tutors. You do not need to worry about trying to explain yourself or fighting for support as your Disability Adviser will assist you in coordinating your support.

Any support you are offered won’t place you at an advantage over your peers or excuse from completing the required work. Instead, the aim is to assist you to manage any difficulties you may face and to make reasonable adjustments to ensure you are not at a disadvantage. What is reasonable depends on your individual needs and your chosen course.

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This toolkit is an adaptation of the Autism&Uni project led by Marc Fabri from Leeds Beckett University, under license CC BY 4.0. The original Autism&Uni project was funded with support from the European Commission with partners in the UK, Finland, the Netherlands, Poland and Spain. For more information about this project please visit the Autism&Uni website.